Saturday, May 10, 2014

Quotes and Recent Life

An introduction from The Alchemist,

"What's the secret behind such a huge success?

The only honest response is: I don't know. All I know is that, like Santiago the shepherd boy, we all need to be aware of our personal calling. 

What is a personal calling? It is God's blessing, it is the path that God chose for you here on Earth. Whenever we do something that fills us with enthusiasm, we are following our legend. However, we don't all have the courage to confront our own dream. 

Why?
There are four obstacles. First: we are told from childhood onward that everything we want to do is impossible. We grow up with this idea, and as the years accumulate, so too do the layers of prejudice, fear and guilt. There comes a time when our personal calling is so deeply buried in our soul as to be invisible. But it's still there. 

If we have the courage to disinter dream, we are then faced by the second obstacle: love. We know what we want to do, but are afraid of hurting those around us by abandoning everything in order to pursue our dream. We do not realize that love is just a further impetus, not something that will prevent us from going forward. We do not realize that those who genuinely wish us well want us to be happy and prepared to accompany us on that journey. 

Once we have accepted that love is a stimulus, we come up against the third obstacle: fear of the defeats we will meet on the path. We who fight for our dream suffer far more when it doesn't work out, because we cannot fall back on the old excuse: "Oh, well, I didn't really want it anyway." We do want it and know that we have staked everything on it and that the path of personal calling is no easier than any other path, except that our whole heart is in this journey. Then, we warriors of light must be prepared to have patience in difficult times and to know that the Universe is conspiring in our favor, even though we may not understand how. 

I ask myself: are the defeats necessary? 
Well, necessary or not, they happen. When we first begin fighting for our dream, we have no experience and make many mistakes. The secret of life, though, is to fall seven times and to get up eight times. 

So why is it so important to live our personal calling if we are only going to suffer more than other people?

Because, once we have overcome the defeats-- and we always do-- we are filled by a greater sense of euphoria and confidence. In the silence of our hearts, we know that we are proving ourselves worthy of the miracle of life. Each day, each hour, is part of the good fight. We start to live with enthusiasm and pleasure. Intense, unexpected suffering passes more quickly than suffering that is apparently bearable; the latter goes on for years and, without our noticing, eats away at our soul, until, one day, we are no longer able to free ourselves from the bitterness and it stays with us for the rest of our lives.

Having disinterred our dream, having used the power of love to nurture it and spent many years living with the scars, we suddenly notice that what we always wanted is there, waiting for us, perhaps the very next day. Then comes the fourth obstacle: the fear of realizing the dream for which we fought all our lives. 

Oscar Wilde said: "Each man kills the thing he loves." And it's true. The mere possibility of getting what we want fills the soul of the ordinary person with guilt. We look around at all those who have failed to get what they want and feel that we do not deserve to get what we want either. We forget about all the obstacles we overcame, all the suffering we endured, all the things we had to give up in order to get this far. I have known a lot of people who, when their personal calling was within their grasp, went on to commit a series of stupid mistakes and never reached their goal-- when it was only a step away. 

This is the most dangerous of the obstacles because it has a kind of saintly aura about it: renouncing joy and conquest. But if you believe yourself worthy of the thing you fought so hard to get, then you become an instrument of God, you help the Soul of the World, and you understand why you are here."

-Paulo Coelho, November 2002

My recent life in pictures

Delivering Groceries

Weekend Brunch in Woodinville

Seattle Japanese Garden

Garden

Happy Birthday!!!



Product Placement 
Day 1

Day 2

Day 3
Karli

Thursday, May 1, 2014

Yes, Jade Is The Girl of The Hour

Happy May!



I wanted to write a post thanking Jade Parry for being such an incredible light in my life. Also, to congradulate her on her upcoming graduation. YOU GO, GIRL!

I met Jade two summers ago in Italy. After we returned from the trip, we found ourselves hanging out with each other, noticing that we were buildling a wonderful friendship. I look back on our friendship and think of the best times and worst times, realizing that we have experienced them all, together.  Even though I live 3000 miles away, she is still part of my every day life.

She is graduating from University of Florida on Saturday and will begin a graduate program at the University of Tennessee where she will officially become a registered dietician. I am so proud of her hard work in school and her happiness towards life. 

Here is a breif photo history of our friendship.


Jade and I in Italy

Brunello Wine Tasting

Me Chasing Jade Through Wheat

Riding the Subway in Rome

Summer Lovin'

Our Karma Cream Girls Nights

Jade's Special Day 2013

Halloween 2013

The Night of Edward Sharpe and Magnetic Zeros

Lakeland to Meet Her Parents :)

We Loved to Dance

No Caption Necessary

My Graduation

Good luck, Jade!!! Can't wait for you to visit.

Karli